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fter fighting for a righteous justice for the last 2 years I have realized that 498a is a money, and patience game. Like any other Indian I respect my countries legal system, and understand often the weakness can be transformed into strength.
Mine was a love marriage, and I got married when I was 23, a little juvenile but committed. I am the only son of my parents other than my married sister. I loved and cared my wife to the extent of practical possibilities in rhythm with her whims and fancies, and had made her the first priority of my life. Right after our marriage, I was able to imagine, that she needs to be guided properly about relationships other than a husband and wife, she misbehaved with my parents, brought in sadhus and tantriks in the house, hoping they will help her having my parents either dead or in some other house, and out of my reach.
Her parents and elder sister constantly interfered, in our in-house matters and issues. She was highly under the influence of her parents on making any decisions in favor of "us" and all the decisions always drifted towards her parents deep down wishes.
In 2007 after four year of our marriage she gave birth to our daughter, she was pregnant earlier; however, she suffered a miscarriage, while staying at her parent’s place which was conveyed to me after the "accident" over the phone by her parents.
2008 she took my daughter, and went to her parents, I went to bring her back home, and was abused and threatened by her parents and neighbors later handed over to the police station, the cases she filed against me are under proceeding in the court of Durgapur.
I have been playing patience since then, waiting for my daughter to grow up and some day she will grow up, and will have her own thoughts, not under any influence, thoughts that she is endowed with inheritance. Blood speaks and there will be no difference even this time. I am not afraid anymore, neither I think how long I will live; I respect the Indian legal system and am sure it works the way you want it to work, only if you have the strength to survive and a wish to turn the tables.
I know I am “done” for my life, I will never have a normal life, and seriously I don’t want any, any further, all that matters to me, is my daughter, and I know she has my blood. I will try my level best that she doesn’t get a divorce out of me not until my daughter is 18, I am paying the maintenance anyway, so ill prefer to keep my whims happy at least for once for a change.
The basic idea for people who file for the 498a is, they think we will give-in, get upset, sacred and cornered. Well yes that is a phase and I am no different, went thru the dirtiest things of all, paid for whimsical ransoms of police, lawyers, each and every masked pimp who offered “help”, spent sleepless nights where the only option left for me was to shed a few drops of tears for my daughter who is nothing but being used as a skateboard, felt cornered, helpless, threatened, went on my knees in front of people I wouldn’t have cared to even look at being myself, listening to words of wisdom from strangers and a deserted heart where no hope, no faith , no love had any meaning anymore.
I felt so complete! Like this is it! There is no tomorrow, I am living the reason I was born for. But the problem with me is, I CAN’T FORGET, NOR CAN I FORGIVE. I WILL HAVE MY VENGEANCE IN THIS LIFE OR THE NEXT!
Tuesday, August 10, 2010
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